tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17015368.post8893838474968590695..comments2023-02-27T06:46:08.228-08:00Comments on A Single Man: Changing dynamicsA Single Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09166325804204191286noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17015368.post-46163449892546442192009-04-14T16:12:00.000-07:002009-04-14T16:12:00.000-07:00I kind of needed to see this kind of perspective l...I kind of needed to see this kind of perspective laid down in words for me right now. It does sound like you are getting better. I wish you the best. I must say your new perspective on your life is refreshing to hear, and in a weird small way is helping me find some myself.Zackihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16186008655927025927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17015368.post-86535150400619383162009-04-14T01:58:00.000-07:002009-04-14T01:58:00.000-07:00In drying out you're doing the best thing you can ...In drying out you're doing the best thing you can be doing - for both of you. Even without H's illness, I'd be saying "you can't change him, you can only change yourself". As you free yourself from the additional burden of alcohol, it sounds like you're gaining valuable insights into yourself and H and your relationship, and finding yourself coping with stuff that recently would have been too Greghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15270177252139637687noreply@blogger.com